Margaux R.
Photograph provided by Margaux R.
If you’re reading this, you should know that your sport does not define you. I have struggled through my own anxieties with my sport. Allowing my stats to define me and comparing myself to others.
When from the beginning, I should have known that everyone is running a different race.
You are not behind or ahead. You are right where you are supposed to be. I used to think that by a certain time, I would have it all figured out and accomplish everything I wanted to by now. I thought I knew what was supposed to happen and how my season would go. When in fact I did not.
I went from the freshman record holder in the high jump to not being able to hit that height again, to my junior year training for the pentathlon and scoring #7 all the time, and then I sprained my ankle two days before our conference meet.
It is hard to not be frustrated and discouraged when what you think you can control goes askew. During these tough times, you need to remember why you love your sport:
Because it gave you your amazing teammates and best friends.
It showed you how to work hard.
It created a passion in you.
It allowed for you and others to believe in you.
It gave you a creative and athletic outlet.
It allowed you to try something new.
It taught you that you can always learn a new trick.
Through these tough times, you need to remember that we compete for the love of the game and everything that comes with it. Through all the tough workouts, early morning practices, and long, hard-fought games that did not go the way you wanted. Remember why you do it and that your health and mindset will always be more important than any statistic.
Margaux R., Cornell University
Cornell University Track & Field
Dear student athletes, you are strong, capable, and resilient. We are here to support you on your journey. From around the country, five student athletes have come together for a letter series to offer their open support by sharing their unique, beautiful, and individual stories. Their mission is to create a safe community for student athletes to be there for one another through all the challenges and glories. Your mental and physical health matter and you are not alone.
Letter series facilitated and edited by Gabrielle Pack.
