Anonymous
Photography by Margeaux Edwards
If you're reading this, I want you to take a deep breath and listen closely.
It's me, your older self, reaching out to share some wisdom I wish I had understood sooner.
Let's talk about something that's been weighing heavily on your mind: the opinions of others.
Growing up, you've spent far too much energy worrying about what other people think. Whether it's the clothes you wear, the way your body looks, the words you say, or the choices you make, you've let the fear of judgment dictate your actions. But here's the truth that I've come to realize: it doesn't matter.
Those moments of embarrassment or self-consciousness? They fade away faster than you think. Nobody remembers that awkward thing you said last week or the outfit you wore twice in a row. In the grand scheme of things, people are too wrapped up in their own lives to give much thought to yours. Never forget the saying, “If it won’t matter in five years, don’t dwell on it for more than five minutes.”
I know it's hard to believe right now, but trust me when I say that your worth isn't measured by the opinions of others. The only person you need to impress is yourself. Focus on being true to who you are, following your passions, and living authentically. The right people will admire you for your authenticity, not for conforming to their expectations. As you continue to grow, remember that confidence and true beauty comes from within.
Embrace things that make you unique, express your ideas, and don't be afraid to stand out and think differently than others. The world needs more people who are unapologetically themselves, and you have the power to be one of them.
So, my dear younger self, take another deep breath and let go of the weight of other people's opinions. You are worthy, you are enough, and you are loved just as you are. Keep doing what makes you truly happy, and the right people will be drawn to your warmth and authenticity.
Anonymous, Washington State University
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