Anonymous

Photography by Shane Fruchterman

If you’re reading this, you’re right where you’re supposed to be.

Amidst the chaos of expectations, it’s all too easy to feel like you’re constantly running to catch up, trying to keep pace with the ever-elusive “next thing”. The way things unfold can often trick us into thinking we should be farther along, accomplishing more, or hitting specific goals by a particular age. The world moves fast, and sometimes it feels like everyone else is sprinting while you’re barely taking baby steps. It’s a common sentiment, one that gnaws at the back of our minds, a nagging feeling that we’re falling behind.

I want you to know that you’re not alone in experiencing this sensation. Each of us has our own unique path: a journey filled with twists, turns, and unexpected detours. The truth is, we’re not all meant to hit the same milestones at the same time. Life isn’t a race; it’s a field of diverse experiences and opportunities, and we all move through it at our own pace.

Remember, it is perfectly okay to feel like you’re not where you thought you’d be by now. We’ve all been there, standing at the crossroads of our lives, wondering if we took the wrong turn somewhere. But here’s the beautiful part: you are right where you are supposed to be.

With all its challenges and triumphs, your journey has brought you to this very moment. Every experience, every setback, and every small victory has shaped you into the remarkable person you are today. You’ve learned, you’ve grown, and you’ve gained wisdom along the way.

It’s easy to get caught up in comparisons, measuring your progress against someone else’s highlight reel. But remember, these snapshots of success don’t tell the whole story. Life isn’t a linear path; it’s a mosaic of moments that come together to create your unique narrative.

So, as you navigate the uncertainties of life, take a deep breath and embrace the journey. Celebrate your specific pace, and know it’s leading you exactly where you need to be. Your journey is unfolding just as it should, and every step you take is a step toward your unique destination.

There's no rush, no need to constantly chase after the next thing. You are enough just as you are. Your path is your own, and it's filled with endless possibilities. So, walk it with confidence, and trust that every step is a part of your beautiful story.

Anonymous, University of Wisconsin

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